“Part of the thrill is using sort of edgy, boundary-pushing epithets that we can reclaim through sex.” When it comes to advanced dirty talk, Horn suggests that you, “really see yourself as a storyteller, a creative person exercising a skill.” If your partner is using words or phrases that don’t work for you, be gentle in how you let them know. Pay attention to the words and phrases your partner is using and adopt them if you’re comfortable. You can share each other’s word banks or just incorporate what’s affirming versus what’s off-limits into natural conversation. “One of the most important basics is understanding what words you like to describe all the parts of your body, as well as your partner’s,” says Horn.
- “It’s never a bad idea to incorporate more erotic language and communication into your sex life, especially now.”
- The language of the body can be one of affirmation as well as erotic possibility.
- “But I can use language to describe what I love about how they feel in my arms, the way they smell, the experience of them tasting me.”
- Feminista Jones is a sex-positive Black feminist, social worker and blogger from New York City.
- I’d been attracted to women for as long as I’d been attracted to men, so to finally experience sex with one was an awakening for me; it was amazing.
- “At first for most people who talk dirty, it ends up being very basic stuff like you know, ‘That feels good, keep going, don’t stop,'” says Marin.
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Courtney advises that women not limit themselves in the bed, thinking they can’t do something because there are two women involved. “I find that some lesbians who identify very strongly with labels—butch, femme, stud, dom, etc.—do tend to have sex that mimics heterosexual sex,” says Aryka, a self-identified lesbian who’s had sex with men in the past. She points out that there isn’t the same sense of a beginning and an “end” when women have sex with each other, at least not how we think about sex between a man and woman. When it comes to porn, “lesbian sex” is everywhere, but it’s never actually for lesbians. For some reason, it’s nearly impossible to find “content” where women are having sex with women only for women.
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“Little comments or texts throughout the day can really build up the excitement leading to the physical touch.” The important thing is to not judge or shame yourself or your partner for whatever that sexy persona or fantasy looks like, whether it’s being dressed in Princess Leia’s gold bikini, a tuxedo, nothing but stilettos, or a dog collar. Though, of course, always be conscientious about establishing enthusiastic consent and doing boundary check-ins throughout any roleplaying dirty talk. Always remember that it’s both party’s right to respectfully say no at any time.
Horn suggests starting with discovering your own personal sexual persona or personas. In the kink community, there’s a laundry list of labels and even tests you can take to get an idea of common archetypes, power dynamics, and fantasies you might want to play around with through dirty talk. Like all skills, it takes practice and requires immersing yourself further in the world of erotic storytelling. That means not only engaging with the more structured narratives of written, visual, or audio erotica, but also borrowing ideas and language from the more improvised erotic narratives of roleplaying from the kink community.